seem like god does not consider my feeling, one by one in short time, i must feel painful to loss my family forefer, yesterday on 18th 12 2008, my grandpa also was comeback to the "god house" in there..., and now i am really sick, too hurt...
many advice, many support come and make me relize one day all people also will die...
so we can not change our destiny, god was determine that..., i do hope this sad tragedy will give positive contribution to me, especially my parents and my big family...
and now, so sorry to all, because my blog was become something personal, because only with this blog i can write my feeling...
so this blog also will become my life note
god....
2008-12-19
my sadness part II
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 2:38 AM 1 comments
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2008-12-08
your PoWer
guys everyone is different, so make that different become your power....
my power is that different from others
do you get it ?
let me explain....
i take my self as a sample :
my different form others are :
1. i am not rich, so i must work hard since in the early i entered in amikom, i try to be disclipine not depend on my parents, i try as i can to not demand money from my parents, because they are getting old, and in that time economic situation of my family is so bad
but i am not mawkish even i must work part time, sacrifice my time to study, sacrifice my time to sleep, sacrifice my time to play like others, i am not shy to work, those give me understanding how difficult to life..
2. i admit my skill : english, singing, computer : i was obtain money from those, i was be adjudicator in debate competition, translater, amikom choir, and customer service....
3. my thought : i try to understand all kinds of people, sociable, reliable, positive thinking, i try to not be an arrogant people because only God that suite to be an arrogant
those made me special for me
and right now, come on find what is different from you compare with others ??????
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 1:04 AM 1 comments
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2008-12-07
my sadness part 1
first, actually in my blog, i just want to write a public matter, but ithink this important for me
on 6 december 2008, my grandma was living me forever, she was go to the god home, last i just talk with her by phone and she said vid grandma was eaten, getting health....
i love you my grandma......
you dont accomplish your promise to me
i am so sorry for all
now, i really understand i do love you
i understand every people will die
and god was regulate that all
happyness, sadness was determine by god
last god please love my grand ma there....
put her into your heaven..
this writing be my memorian in my life, one day i will remember that by reading this....
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 12:05 AM 0 comments
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2008-12-02
tips to look for Job and succeed in interview
just like this : every people have excellence , so means you also absolutely have it
actually company not always accept an employee by seing a higest skill, but manner, interaction, performance and everything, so you can show off in one or few of that.
the most important you must have :
1. the spirit of competition : think "i can", dont think "i cant"
2. discipline : on time, this is important because for first perspective to you from company ( in interview condition)
3. motivation : NEVER think you are not OK and you are not capable
4. Skill : try to study, not mind even if you have low skill, still there training from company, and you can still study
5. attitude : habitual, shake hands, talking, in the interview process, just show off, package your answer as good as posible, confidence
6. preparation : performance, the way you sit, smile, active..
hope those would be useful
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 10:22 PM 0 comments
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2008-11-29
Pornography and Pornoaction Law
my core why agree with UUAPP : because of protection, good role model for young generation.
some contents :
-Pornography is the material that sexuality is created by humans in the form of images, sketches, illustrations, photographs, writing, sound, sound, moving pictures, animation, cartoons, minstrelsy, conversation, body movement, or any other form of communication message through various forms of media and communications / or performance in public, which can arouse sexual desire and / or violate the values of decency in the community.
- Everyone is prohibited to produce, create, reproduce, reproduce, disseminate, broadcast, importing, exporting, offering, trade and buy, rent, or provide a load of pornography: making love, including sexual violence, Masturbation, nudity or view the impressive nudity or genitalia.
so at least what i see this bills can be a prevention to all people to express their freedom of expression in term of sexual
and i see it need to be done, because we are in religion country, and what so ever we dont need to show off something that related to the sexual, because that is enough in term of privacy and dont need to show to public and also the influence to other is so big if there is something action about sex that consume by people (human), because every human have a sex desire so those action that related to the sex will directly come to our brain and to our "human needed" as a human so its why proof that influence in term of something that related to the sex is so big
we need protect our young generation
if you are parents, you need protect your children (is it correct?, so aggree with me)
if you are children you need to be protected, you need good role model (is it correct ?, so agree with me)
so guys to all people who againts bill, you can not ignore some benefit of this constitution
so pornography and Pornoaction Law also can educate us
please open your mind, and speak up
read more.....
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 4:06 AM 0 comments
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expert in computer and few language
are you?
right now, my way in progressing to accomplish that, i try to be expert in computer and i go to amikom jogjakarta to study, and i try to expert in english, i follow english organisation at amikom and i try show my quality until i can be part of amikom debate team to compete in national grade..
i am so happy because by follow that competition means need a lot of preparation, so i need work hard to repair my english and my brain, because debate need a smart people that know all information around the world issue and how they see that issue
and now, i am also take a couse for germany language at arkha paramitha institution in jogja, my desire right now is not in english again but in germany language, i want expert on that
because there is something target on that in my life
so guys not means that in this blog i want to show that i am the best one
but i just want to share to you all, and my self be a comparison
i am sure i am still not get the best one in my life
come on guys, make your self proud
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 2:53 AM 0 comments
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advantages to be debater
almost debater have a strict perspective, and they good in communication, and have a high confidence...
are you debater ??
real debater is someone who have a principal that their enemy is "nothing", and their judge is "god" means they are good competitor, because by those motto show that they believe with their ability, that actually the most important one, because if you dont believe with your ability how you will be the winning in the competition ?????, so there will be just two option : dead or win
so guys if we implemet that motto in facing our day, i believe we will be the winner
"legends are made by work hard"
Posted by Bujang Silampari at 2:34 AM 0 comments
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the most romantic message
"I don't love a woman because she is beautiful or sexy, but she is beautiful because i love her......"
snow story
With high curiosity, Belinda asked, "Why do some color white hair Mama?"
Mama said, " every time you make a naughty to mommy or complain, a piece of hair of mama would be changed so white."
belinda is thinking about her mama answer briefly before continuing, "I now understand why all the grandmother hair is white ...."
I LoVe YoU mom....

